Blue Co-Creation

It turns out that the essence of blue is co-creation. Becomingly embodying the one collaborative synergy that transcends individual contributions. It is the realization that within the vast spectrum of spirit, vision, experience, metaphysical light, dna & socks, a concrete co-creative and harmonious blending of diverse elements emerges to form something greater than the sum of its parts. Codependent abused fathers, mothers & the deepest crying lost baby whale shark. Blue, in its core, represents the artistry of collaboration, where minds converge, perspectives intertwine, and creativity is. It symbolizes the power of unified shared perspective and unitary collective will, giving rise to a multiverse of innovation, understanding, and interconnectedness that defines the beauty, wonder and knowingness of co-creation, in all its tears of laughter. It’s there where N is Z. to make or invent something new together with one or more other people.

Permanence vs. Impermanence

The consequences of permanence versus impermanence depend on the context in which these concepts are applied. Let's explore some common areas where permanence and impermanence can have different consequences:

Relationships:

  • Permanence: Long-lasting relationships can provide stability, emotional support, and a sense of security. However, it may also lead to complacency, and individuals might take each other for granted.

  • Impermanence: Short-term relationships or a fear of commitment can lead to excitement and variety, but they may lack the depth and emotional connection that often comes with long-term bonds.

Nature and Environment:

  • Permanence: A stable and unchanging environment can foster biodiversity and ecological balance. However, it may resist adaptation to changing conditions, making the ecosystem vulnerable to sudden disturbances.

  • Impermanence: Dynamic ecosystems can adapt to changing conditions, promoting resilience. However, rapid changes may lead to disruptions and loss of biodiversity.

Technology:

  • Permanence: Long-lasting technologies provide stability and reliability. However, they may become outdated, hindering progress and innovation.

  • Impermanence: Rapidly evolving technologies drive innovation but can also result in obsolescence and constant adaptation challenges.

Personal Development:

  • Permanence: A stable and unchanging life may offer a sense of security, but it might hinder personal growth and learning.

  • Impermanence: Embracing change and uncertainty can lead to personal development and resilience. However, constant instability may lead to stress and anxiety.

Cultural and Societal Structures:

  • Permanence: Stable institutions can provide a sense of order and continuity. However, they may resist necessary social changes.

  • Impermanence: Societal evolution and cultural adaptation can lead to progress and inclusivity. However, rapid changes might create instability and social disarray.

Art and Creativity:

  • Permanence: Timeless art and enduring creative works may become cultural treasures. However, a fixation on preserving tradition may stifle innovation.

  • Impermanence: Embracing change in artistic expression can lead to fresh perspectives and innovation. However, it may result in a lack of cultural continuity.

In summary, whether permanence or impermanence is considered "better" often depends on the specific context and individual preferences. Striking a balance between stability and adaptability is often crucial for a healthy and thriving system, be it in relationships, nature, technology, personal development, or societal structures.

Chase the Laughter

 

they came on time

expecting, not knowing

who could have possibly known what’s new dark breakfast India cunt of Shiva no on no

off, just so

and he too like a martinet chaplainess strut and oxford stuff 

not fools to be taken heavenly

know why?

he liked to talk a Being

he thought he could see

he knew..

he knew nothing

they came on time

the tra-la-la players

layers and layers and layers

into the house of the master who can run faster chase the laughter 

the department of planning is having a get together

they're very clever 

and he was so busy pretending what he thought he couldn't understand that he crossed

the line

he erased time

he was hopelessly mine

who

who could've possibly known chasing time down escalators for the benefit of fragile

roxy cried thief 

thy if 

taking back was the key

taking back was the key

look out for the holy ghost superstar caviar on toast

he was unprepared

consciousness was spared he touched the warp at the edge of the centre

the family cried

who can enter 

3 you'll agree

is all you ever get to see

3 you'll agree

is all you ever get to see

well we'll see smoke and masks

Pascals cracked armour

chessboard hexagrams of leather with biblical hands touching

it's all a matter of light

into the house of the master 

who can run faster chase the laughter 

he was left in the dust mule

what he bore?

he never knew

and what he lost

he could never see.

and what he has left?

is up to me, see?

now, where's the laughter?

it's from the here and after 

can't you agree: that nothing we see is the same for you and me

can't you agree: that nothing we see is the same for you and me

well if you can't here is the chant

faster and faster: chase the laughter

For all the endless ways in which you’ve exalted me, thank you, and for the ways in which you exploited, fucked and raped me, I laught and potentially forgive you, as I chose, or didn’t I? I love you Ra Uru Hu.

Mechanical Afterlife

Mechanical Afterlife

an afterlife that operates according to some form of mechanism or set of rules. Here are the few truths, insights and/or speculative interpretations:

  1. Metaphysical Mechanism:

    • The idea of a mechanical afterlife might involve a metaphysical mechanism governing the transition from life to an afterlife. This could be a system of energy, vibrations, or spiritual principles that determine the nature of existence beyond the physical realm.

  2. Simulation or Artificial Reality:

    • In a futuristic or speculative context, the afterlife could be a simulated reality, created and maintained by advanced technology. People's consciousness or digital representations might exist in a virtual realm, following a set of rules or algorithms.

  3. Karmic System:

    • The mechanical afterlife could be driven by a karmic system where individuals are subjected to a series of experiences or phases based on their actions during this current earthly life. This could involve a mechanism of cause and effect governing the journey in the afterlife.

  4. Reincarnation Mechanism:

    • Instead of a linear afterlife, there might be a mechanical process of reincarnation where souls are recycled and given new life based on certain criteria or rules. This could involve a systematic way of redistributing consciousness.

  5. Time-Limited Existence:

    • The mechanical afterlife might have a time-based structure, where individuals exist for a specific duration or undergo certain experiences before transitioning to another state. This could be analogous to levels in a game or stages in a process.

  6. Cosmic Machinery:

    • The afterlife could be governed by cosmic machinery or celestial mechanics that regulate the movement of souls or consciousness through different planes of existence. This could involve celestial bodies influencing the afterlife experience.

  7. Symbolic Mechanism:

    • The mechanical afterlife might not be a literal mechanism but a symbolic one, representing the structured nature of existence and the interconnectedness of life and death. It could serve as a metaphor for the order and balance in the universe.

It's important to note that these interpretations are imaginative and speculative. The idea of a mechanical afterlife is often shaped by cultural, religious, and philosophical perspectives. Your own interpretation can be influenced by your beliefs, values, and the context in which you encounter this concept.

Salvation & Soteriology

Soteriology

Soteriology (/soʊˌtɪriˈɒlədʒi/; Greek: σωτηρία sōtēria "salvation" from σωτήρ sōtēr "savior, preserver" and λόγος logos "study" or "word") is the study of religious doctrines of salvation. Salvation theory occupies a place of special significance in many religions. In the academic field of religious studies, soteriology is understood by scholars as representing a key theme in a number of different religions and is often studied in a comparative context; that is, comparing various ideas about what salvation is and how it is obtained.

The concept of salvation varies across different religious and philosophical traditions, but generally, it refers to the deliverance or rescue from some form of peril, harm, or undesirable condition. Salvation often has a spiritual or religious connotation and is associated with the idea of being saved or redeemed from sin, suffering, or separation from a divine reality.

Salvation:

1 a:deliverance from the power and effects of sin

1 b:the agent or means that effects salvation

1 c:Christian Science: the realization of the supremacy of infinite Mind over all bringing with it the destruction of the illusion of sin, sickness, and death

2 :liberation from ignorance or illusion

3 a:preservation from destruction or failure

3 b:deliverance from danger or difficulty

Salvation: 22 elements

While it may be dangerous, harmful or detrimental to place one’s authority fully in one specific religion, philosophy or belief system, here are 20 elements that are often universally seen as elements lead to or form salvation. It’s also important to recognize that beliefs about salvation can vary widely among different cultures and religious traditions. Without further ado, here they are.

  1. Faith/Belief:

    Trust or belief in a higher power, deity, or certain principles besides trust and belief in one’s present self.

  2. Divine Grace:

    The concept of receiving salvation as a gift or divine grace, often irrespective of one's merit.

  3. Forgiveness:

    Receiving forgiveness for sins, often through divine mercy.

  4. Love/Compassion:

    Connection to a divine love and compassion, as well as the expression of love toward others.

  5. Good Works/Righteousness:

    Performing good deeds or living a righteous life as a reflection of one's faith.

  6. Redemption:

    Being saved or redeemed from the consequences of sin.

  7. Sacrifice/Atonement:

    The belief in a sacrificial act or process for the remission of sins.

  8. Knowledge/Wisdom:

    The pursuit of spiritual knowledge or wisdom as a means to salvation.

  9. Submission/Obedience:

    Positively and effectively submitting to the will of a higher power and obeying divine commandments.

  10. Transformation:

    Experiencing a transformative process or spiritual rebirth.

  11. Hope:

    Believing in a positive future, often tied to an afterlife.

  12. Community/Communion:

    Participating in communal worship, fellowship, or a sense of unity with others.

  13. Service/Compassionate Action:

    Engaging in acts of service and compassionate actions toward others.

  14. Purification:

    The idea of purifying oneself from sin or impurities.

  15. Seeking Truth:

    Pursuing truth and understanding as a means to salvation.


  16. Merging:

    The act of becoming, unifying and merging with God.

  17. Intention:

    Right intention setting and ethical conduct.

  18. Divination, Prayer or Meditation:

    Communicating with the metaphysical or divine through effective methods tarot, divination, prayer or meditation.

  19. Humility:

    Embracing humility and acknowledging one's dependence on a higher power.

  20. Understanding Materialism:

    Recognizing the limitations of material pursuits while focusing on spiritual growth.

  21. Universal Love/Inclusivity:

    Embracing a universal love for all beings and fostering inclusivity.

  22. Repentance:

    Turning away from sin or wrongdoing.

From a more secular standpoint, salvation might be seen as the pursuit of personal or societal well-being, freedom from oppression, or the realization of a utopian state. Again, it's crucial to emphasize that these elements are generalized and might not apply universally to every belief system. The specific elements and their emphasis can vary significantly across cultures, religions, and philosophical traditions.

The Risks of Making Decisions on Limited or Misinformation

Making decisions based on ignorance, misinformation or limiting beliefs can lead to a range of negative consequences, affecting individuals, communities, and even societies. Here are some of the dangers, sadness, frustrations, and torments associated with such decisions:

Ignorance, Stupidity & False Beliefs: Decision-making based on misinformation can result in the adoption of false beliefs. This can lead individuals to act on inaccurate information, potentially causing harm to themselves or others.

Inability to Fulfill & Solve One’s Life: In some cases, making life decisions based on false, misguided or incomplete information can lead to the inability to make empowering, enlightening and harmonious fulfilling life choices leading to elements such as frustration, jealousy, sadness, isolation, weakness and lack.  

Health Impact: Stress and anxiety resulting from the fallout of misinformed life decisions can have physical health implications. Chronic stress is linked to various health issues, including cardiovascular problems and weakened immune function.

Isolation and Loneliness: Individuals who experience the negative consequences of misinformed decisions may withdraw from social circles due to shame or embarrassment. This isolation can contribute to feelings of loneliness and a lack of support.

Identity Crisis: Significant life decisions often shape one's identity and sense of self. Discovering that a decision was based on misinformation may lead to an identity crisis as individuals question their values, priorities, and the path they have chosen.

Strained Relationships: Life decisions impact not only the decision-maker but also those around them. Misinformed decisions can strain relationships with family, friends, and colleagues, especially if others are adversely affected by the consequences.

Detrimental Bonds: Making promises, vows and commitment based on limited information, falsehood or misinformation can lead to all sorts of pain, emotoinal suffering and psychoemtional overexhaustion.

Unintended Consequences: Misinformed decisions may have unintended consequences that were not anticipated due to the lack of accurate information. These consequences can range from personal setbacks to broader societal issues.

Damage to Relationships: Misinformation can contribute to misunderstandings and conflicts within personal and professional relationships. Trust can be eroded when decisions are based on inaccurate information, leading to strained interactions and damaged connections.

Wasted Resources: Acting on misinformation can lead to the inefficient allocation of resources. This is particularly problematic in business, politics, and other organizational settings where decisions impact the effective use of time, money, and manpower.

Missed Opportunities: Misinformed decisions may result in missed opportunities for growth, learning, and positive outcomes. Individuals and organizations may fail to recognize and capitalize on beneficial possibilities due to a lack of accurate information.

Psychological Impact: Discovering that decisions were based on false information can be emotionally distressing. Individuals may experience guilt, regret, or frustration when they realize the consequences of their misinformed choices.

Public Health Risks: In situations where decisions impact public health, such as during a pandemic, misinformation can lead to behaviors that contribute to the spread of disease. This poses risks not only to individuals but to the entire community.

Policy Failures: Decision-makers in government and other institutions may formulate policies based on misinformation. This can lead to ineffective or counterproductive measures that fail to address the actual issues at hand, potentially exacerbating problems.

Social Division: Misinformation can contribute to the polarization of society by perpetuating false narratives and reinforcing pre-existing biases. This can lead to social fragmentation, with individuals and groups holding divergent views and mistrusting one another.

Legal Consequences: In some cases, decisions based on misinformation may have legal ramifications. Individuals or organizations may face legal challenges or liabilities if their actions cause harm to others as a result of relying on inaccurate information.

Lack of Time & Space to Self-Actualize: Going around in broken circles, trying to complete, fulfill and fix one’s life often automatically goes hand in hand with the lack of the time and space to truly be passionate it, often coming with the lack of deep authentic passion, purpose and the inability to self-actualize to the depths of satisfaction, pride and true wholeness.

Difficulty Rebuilding: Reversing the effects of misinformed life decisions can be challenging, as it’s often hard to tell what the most deep rooted, limiting and harmful beliefs are, as one’s life and self-esteem is literally built upon them. Rebuilding one's life may require significant effort, the causing of a relative, a life crisis, resilience, and a willingness to make new choices based on new and more accurate information.

Weak Personal Authority: Choosing one’s life based on limited beliefs, falsehood or misinformation often leads to weak personal authority and decision making capabilities, often surrendering one’s personal authority and sovereignty to authorities such as mainstream concensus society, religious moralities and dogma, limited scientific research and others who are conditioned by the same instances, often placing faith, trust in a God, society or other to choose for them, often leading to more disharmony, weakness, confusion and psycho-emotional suffering and lack.

It's crucial to promote critical thinking, information literacy, and fact-checking to mitigate the impact of misinformation and make more informed decisions. Additionally, fostering a culture of transparency and accountability can help address the challenges associated with decision-making in the face of misinformation.

Navigating the Dark Side of AI

Beware: a Cautionary Perspective on Highly Intelligent Algorithms

In our digital age, the prevalence of AI and highly intelligent algorithms has become ubiquitous, infiltrating our lives through ads, social media, and AI-driven apps like Midjourney, ChatGPT, and Social Media Ad Algorithms. However, the seemingly advanced technology that surpasses human capabilities raises crucial concerns for the well-being, spirituality, and existence of individuals, especially the upcoming generation of young, vulnerable world leaders.

These algorithms, often designed with profit-driven motives, contribute to societal issues such as inequality, greed, and the consolidation of power among company CEOs, developers, and founders. The rapid evolution of AI and algorithms, while promising efficiency, has potential downsides that can be detrimental to the human spirit.

The perfectionism propagated by these technologies, with unattainable standards and ideals, can lead to profound psychological and emotional consequences. The meticulously crafted online personas and moments showcased in social media and advertising often distort reality, creating a false sense of inadequacy, guilt, and detachment from authentic human experiences.

This technological perfectionism has the potential to induce a range of negative emotions, from self-hatred and isolation to deep depression and even suicidal tendencies. The illusion of a flawless life presented through screens can also hinder genuine connections in interpersonal and romantic relationships, as individuals become disillusioned with the imperfect nature of real-life experiences.

Moreover, these highly intelligent algorithms can be seen as subterfuges, tools designed to deceive and manipulate individuals into spiritual detachment and isolation. The core traits associated with subterfuge—deception, manipulation, and exploitation—are evident in the AI-driven systems that often prioritize profit over the well-being of users.

As we navigate the digital landscape, it is essential to approach AI and algorithms with awareness. While these technologies can offer education and awareness, their potential for harm is equally significant. Striking a balance between embracing technological advancements and safeguarding our mental and emotional well-being is crucial for a healthy coexistence with the rapidly evolving digital world.

I’ve had the experiencing of wanting to commit suicide because of my sense of alientation, enstrangement, isolation and detachment from loved on because of tech, so let us be mindful that what we witness online is but a momentary and often AI-generated snapshot, not a valid representation of the complexities, imperfections, and shadows that make up the true human experience. Awareness and ethical considerations must guide our interaction with these technologies to ensure a future where humanity's well-being takes precedence over deceptive perfectionism.

When navigating becomes celebrating.

AI, Algorithms, Social Media & Spiritual Death

Introduction

AI, Highly Intelligent Algorithms almost always have a higher intelligence than the average human/humans/humanity as they are based on a vast pool of date, information and intelligence that keeps on improving through deep learning.

This technology is all around us, in ads, social media, AI apps such as Midjourney, ChatGPT, & Social Media Ad Algorithms.

These AI tools, algorithms and social media Interfaces almost always serve a higher and/or negative purpose, such as inequality, greed, the CEO’s, developpers & founders of these companies and tools, advertising companies and deeply rooted high supremecies, authorities & power structures.

This emergence of perfectionism all around us through the highly exponentially increasing efficiency of technology, AI & algorithms tend to be bad, harmful, painful, suffocating and detrimental for us individuals, the human spirit and it’s sense of authentic spirit, well-being, purpose, sense of belonging, happiness, self-esteem, sense of okayness and wholeness, psycho-emotional health and important resources such time, energy and willpower in a highly probable way. Note that it can also educate, elevate, exalt and bring awareness to humans, individuals and humanity, but often also not, so beware.

Potential Dangers

Although these applications can be used intelligently and positively when one is highly aware, most often this designed matrix of highly intelligently designed perfectionism, unattainable standards and ideals, consumeristic capitalism focus and/or fakeness has a big chance of creating in you, individuals and humanity a sense of wrongness, guilt, shame, low self-esteem, alienation, estrangement, pain, self-hatred, self-loathing, self-destruction, isolation, detachment (from one’s self, family, friends and social life), self-doubt, spiritual suffocation, self-distrubance and ultimately deep depression and suicidal thoughts and/or tendencies. It also creates a disgust with regular imperfect life and imperfect humans, leading to dangers such wasting life and time behind a screen as lack of realization, awareness and commitment in interpersonal and romantic relationships.

This is also important as in our surroundings or art, culture and society, celebrity’s musical takes, singles, albums and photoshoots, magazine editorial pictures, highly professional marketing edits on the streets, online and in tabloids, … etc. are all momentary and often AI-generated moments in Space/Time that are not a full or valid representation of the artist, humanity, culture, societal life and it’s secret, hidden or invisible dark side, imperfections and shadow.

As Alex Turner said it in his album about songwriting: ‘Baby that isn’t how they look tonight…’

Subterfuges

You could see AI, Tech, Social Media Algorithms as tools to deceive, manipulate and keep you spiritually dead in isolation and detachment from light, joy, fun and true spiritual wholeness, power and unity. Another term devices or things that deceives and/or lowers and belittles, is a subterfuge, is While there isn't a universally agreed-upon set of "core traits of subterfuge," subterfuge typically involves the use of deception and cunning to achieve a goal, which most wasn’t designed to serve us. Here are nine characteristics or tactics commonly associated with subterfuge:

  1. Deception: Subterfuge relies on creating a false impression or misleading others. This can involve lying, concealing information, or presenting a distorted version of the truth.

  2. Secrecy: Subterfuge often requires keeping one's true intentions or actions hidden from others. Maintaining a veil of secrecy can be essential to the success of deceptive strategies.

  3. Manipulation: This involves influencing or controlling others through indirect or covert means. Manipulative tactics can include emotional manipulation, psychological tactics, or playing on the vulnerabilities of others.

  4. Misdirection: Subterfuge may involve diverting attention away from the actual goal or intention. This could be done through the use of distractions, false information, or creating a decoy.

  5. Adaptability: Successful subterfuge often requires the ability to adapt to changing circumstances or unforeseen challenges. Being flexible and quick-witted can help in adjusting strategies on the fly.

  6. Patience: Subterfuge may involve a waiting game, where the deceiver patiently bides their time until the opportune moment to reveal their true intentions or take action.

  7. Seduction: In certain contexts, subterfuge may involve using charm, charisma, or other persuasive tactics to win people over and gain their trust. This can make it easier to manipulate or deceive them later.

  8. Exploitation: Subterfuge may involve taking advantage of weaknesses or vulnerabilities in individuals or systems. This can include exploiting trust, exploiting gaps in security, or leveraging personal information.

  9. Strategic Thinking: Subterfuge often requires careful planning and strategic thinking. This involves anticipating the reactions of others, considering potential obstacles, and devising contingency plans.

It's important to note that while these traits are associated with subterfuge, the ethical implications of such actions can vary widely. In many cases, subterfuge is considered manipulative and dishonest, and it can have serious consequences in personal and professional relationships. Ethical considerations should always be taken into account when engaging in any form of subterfuge.

Conclusion

As we navigate the digital landscape, it is essential to approach AI and algorithms with awareness. While these technologies can offer education and awareness, their potential for harm is equally significant. Striking a balance between embracing technological advancements and safeguarding our mental and emotional well-being is crucial for a healthy coexistence with the rapidly evolving digital world.

23 Forms & Shapes of Certainty and Its Pitfalls

Introduction

Certainty is a foundational aspect of human experience, providing a sense of security and stability in the unpredictable journey of life. While individual preferences vary, certain key elements often form the bedrock of the certainty individuals, including women, seek in various facets of their lives. Let's explore these twenty-three factors that encompass the spectrum of human desires for assurance and clarity.

23 Elements of Certainty

  1. Relationship Commitment: Assurance of commitment and loyalty in romantic relationships.

  2. Financial Stability: Confidence in financial security and stability.

  3. Health and Safety: Assurance of well-being and safety for oneself and loved ones.

  4. Emotional Support: Consistent emotional support and understanding.

  5. Career Stability: Confidence in job security and professional growth.

  6. Family Harmony: Assurance of a stable and harmonious family life.

  7. Future Planning: Clarity and assurance in long-term plans and goals.

  8. Personal Identity: Certainty in one's self-awareness and identity.

  9. Trustworthiness: Confidence in the trustworthiness of others in personal and professional relationships.

  10. Reliability: Assurance in the reliability of tools, technology, and services.

  11. Communication: Clear and honest communication in relationships.

  12. Parental Guidance: Certainty in parenting decisions and approaches.

  13. Friendship: Assurance of loyalty and support in friendships.

  14. Personal Growth: Confidence in personal development and self-improvement.

  15. Social Acceptance: Assurance of acceptance and belonging in social circles.

  16. Time Management: Clarity and certainty in time commitments and schedules.

  17. Intellectual Security: Assurance in one's intellectual capabilities and understanding.

  18. Legal Protection: Certainty in legal rights and protections.

  19. Privacy: Assurance of personal privacy and boundaries.

  20. Spiritual Fulfillment: Certainty in one's spiritual beliefs and practices.

  21. Playfulness: Assurance in the freedom to embrace playfulness and spontaneity.

  22. Excitement: Certainty in experiencing exhilaration and novelty in life.

  23. Pride in Work or Self-Actualization: Assurance in the journey towards work & self-actualization, accompanied by a sense of pride and satisfaction.

Downsides of certainty and wanting it

While certainty can provide a sense of security and stability, an excessive desire for certainty or an inability to tolerate uncertainty can have downsides. Here are some potential drawbacks:

  1. Rigidity: A strong desire for certainty may lead to inflexibility and resistance to change. Life is inherently dynamic, and an unwillingness to adapt to new circumstances can hinder personal and professional growth.

  2. Missed Opportunities: Insisting on certainty can result in missed opportunities. Some of the most rewarding experiences and valuable lessons arise from stepping outside one's comfort zone and embracing the unknown.

  3. Anxiety and Stress: The constant quest for certainty can contribute to heightened anxiety and stress, especially in situations where complete assurance is unattainable. This can negatively impact mental health and overall well-being.

  4. Control Issues: A desire for certainty may manifest as a need for control. Trying to control every aspect of life and relationships can strain personal connections and lead to feelings of frustration when things don't go as planned.

  5. Perfectionism: The pursuit of certainty can sometimes manifest as perfectionism, where individuals set unrealistically high standards for themselves and others. This perfectionist mindset can lead to dissatisfaction and burnout.

  6. Limited Creativity: Creativity often thrives in environments of uncertainty. A rigid need for certainty may stifle creative thinking and innovation, preventing individuals from exploring new ideas or unconventional solutions.

  7. Overthinking and Rumination: Constantly seeking certainty may lead to overthinking and rumination, where individuals obsessively analyze situations and possible outcomes. This can contribute to mental fatigue and a cycle of negative thoughts.

  8. Strained Relationships: A strong desire for certainty in relationships can create pressure and unrealistic expectations. It may hinder authentic communication and intimacy, as individuals may fear vulnerability or expressing genuine feelings.

  9. Dependency on External Validation: Relying too heavily on external sources for validation and reassurance can undermine one's sense of self-worth. A constant need for certainty from others may lead to an unhealthy dependence on external opinions.

  10. Avoidance of Challenges: The pursuit of certainty might lead individuals to avoid challenges or situations perceived as risky. However, facing challenges and taking calculated risks is often essential for personal and professional development.

  11. Limited Learning: Embracing uncertainty is often intertwined with learning and growth. A strong desire for certainty may limit the willingness to explore new ideas, acquire new skills, or engage in experiences that offer valuable lessons.

It's important to strike a balance between the need for certainty and the recognition that some level of uncertainty is an inherent part of life. Developing resilience and coping strategies to navigate uncertainty can contribute to a more adaptable and fulfilling life.

Conclusion

Certainty, in its diverse forms, provides the fertile ground for personal growth, meaningful connections, and a life filled with joy and contentment. While the pursuit of certainty is intrinsic to human nature, embracing the uncertainties with an open heart and mind can also lead to unexpected delights and profound discoveries along life's unpredictable path. Balancing the need for assurance with an appreciation for the beauty of the unknown creates a harmonious and fulfilling existence.

To Be (the New) Integrity

The Crucial Role of Integrity

Integrity in-ˈte-grə-tē 

 firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values : INCORRUPTIBILITY
an unimpaired condition : SOUNDNESS
the quality or state of being complete or undivided : COMPLETENESS

Introduction

In a world fraught with challenges, navigating the intricate web of fear, unconditional love, and sentimentality requires a compass — a guiding force that transcends boundaries and anchors us to our true selves. This guiding force is none other than integrity. Defined as a firm adherence to a code of moral values, integrity serves as the bedrock upon which meaningful lives are built. In this article, we will explore the pivotal role of integrity in the pursuit of dreams, the cultivation of unconditional love, and the delicate balance of sentimentality.

  1. The Need to Know: When embarking on a journey fueled by burning desires or vivid dreams, integrity becomes the linchpin that propels us forward. Without it, the vision remains unembodied, and the potential for growth and self-discovery is stunted. Living without integrity can trap us in a cycle of terror, torment, and the pain of perpetual uncertainty, leaving us weakened and haunted by the haunting question of "What if I pushed through?"

  2. Desire to Thrive: Integrity is not just about survival; it is about thriving. It propels individuals beyond mere existence, empowering them to flourish in their personal and professional pursuits. Rooted in a commitment to sound moral values, integrity catalyzes growth, resilience, and the pursuit of excellence in every facet of life.

  3. Need to Survive: In the face of adversity, integrity becomes a survival instinct. It provides the strength to weather storms, navigate challenges, and emerge from difficulties with character and principles intact. The unimpaired condition of one's integrity becomes the lifeline that ensures not just survival but the preservation of one's core identity.

  4. Building Bridges Over Fear: Fear is a formidable obstacle that can impede progress and stunt personal growth. Integrity serves as a bridge over the tumultuous waters of fear, providing the courage to confront and conquer these anxieties. With a foundation in moral values, integrity transforms fear from a hindrance into a catalyst for courage and self-discovery.

  5. Nurturing Unconditional Love: In the realm of relationships, integrity is the fertile soil in which unconditional love blossoms. The commitment to moral values ensures trust, transparency, and a love that transcends conditions. Integrity becomes the cornerstone of meaningful connections, fostering an enduring and genuine bond that weathers the trials of time.

  6. Guiding Through Sentimentality: Sentimentality often clouds judgment and influences decision-making. Integrity acts as a steadfast guide, steering individuals through the sentimental waves without compromising their values. It safeguards authenticity, ensuring that sentimental impulses contribute positively to personal and professional growth.

Conclusion

  1. Strength in Adversity: In the face of challenges, integrity provides the strength to persevere and overcome adversity.

  2. Guiding Light: Integrity acts as a guiding light, illuminating the path to a purposeful life.

  3. Trust Building: It fosters trust in relationships, laying the foundation for deep and meaningful connections.

  4. Regret Prevention: Integrity prevents the haunting specter of regret, ensuring that decisions are aligned with one's true self.

  5. Courage Booster: When rooted in integrity, individuals find the courage to face fears and pursue their dreams.

  6. Unconditional Love: Integrity is the catalyst for the purest form of love, untainted by deceit or betrayal.

  7. Authenticity Safeguard: It safeguards authenticity, preventing the erosion of one's true identity in the face of sentimentality.

  8. Completeness: A life of integrity is marked by completeness, free from the nagging 'what ifs' that plague those who compromise their values.

  9. Resilience Builder: It builds resilience, allowing individuals to bounce back from setbacks and continue their journey with renewed vigor.

  10. Legacy: A life of integrity leaves behind a lasting legacy, inspiring others to follow the path of moral fortitude.

The Architect of Destiny

From now on, there was no more trauma, healing or needing to recall, just the ongoing, masterful and finite imagining of the wholeness, love and laughter.

In the tapestry of my existence, I have arrived at a moment of profound significance—a juncture where the echoes of trauma, past conflict, and the pervasive sense of duality have dissipated like morning mist. This transformative odyssey has been marked by a meticulous process of cleansing, a courageous act of recalling lessons from the shadows, and an alchemical dance with the pain that once defined me. As I stand upon the summit of my own evolution, I find solace in the realization that every trial has been a catalyst for resilience and growth. The scars that once served as reminders of battles waged have now become badges of strength, etched into the canvas of my being. The journey through the labyrinth of self-discovery has demanded a passage through the crucible, where the alchemy of personal transformation unfolded. I have not merely survived; I have thrived, transmuting the lead of adversity into the gold of self-awareness.

Now, as I gaze toward the horizon of my future, I am free to envision a reality of my own design—a reality that resonates with the harmonious notes of laughter, the completeness of wholeness, and the serene certainty of ultimate finality. The creative force within me, once stifled by the shackles of the past, now surges forth with unbridled potential. Every stroke of imagination becomes a brushstroke on the canvas of possibility, painting a picture of a self-fulfilling future where joy and purpose coalesce in a symphony of fulfillment. In this newfound realm of boundless potential, the dichotomy of conflict and duality has given way to a seamless integration of experiences, each thread woven into the fabric of a life fully lived.

As I embark on this chapter of imaginative creation, the laughter that echoes through the corridors of my mind is no longer haunted by the specters of yesterday. It is a laughter that reverberates with the purity of unburdened joy, a laughter that springs from the depths of a soul at peace. The concept of wholeness, once elusive, is now a palpable reality—a mosaic of diverse experiences seamlessly interwoven into the narrative of my existence. In this space of culmination, the ultimate finality is not an end but a culmination—a point where the threads of my journey converge into a tapestry that tells the story of resilience, growth, and the triumphant spirit's ascent.

The journey has been a symphony, and now, in the quietude of self-realization, I stand as both conductor and audience. The baton of intention directs the orchestration of my destiny, and the melodies that unfold are a testament to the transformative power of reclaiming agency over one's narrative. As I breathe life into the vision of my creative self-fulfilling future, I do so with gratitude for the crucible that shaped me and the resilience that carried me through. The canvas is vast, the colors are vibrant, and the masterpiece of my life continues to unfold in the grandeur of laughter, the completeness of wholeness, and the ultimate finality of self-actualization.

In the tapestry of my existence, I have not only shed the burdens of trauma and duality but have emerged as the masterful core of existence—a sentient being intricately woven into the fabric of creation. Standing at the intersection of past and future, I serve as a mirror reflecting the pinnacle of creation's grandeur. The alchemical journey that purified my soul and transmuted pain into wisdom has forged a connection to the very essence of life. As the architect of my destiny, I navigate the currents of existence with intention and purpose, harmonizing with the symphony of the cosmos. In this mastery, I am both participant and observer, a conscious entity shaping reality and, simultaneously, a humble reflection of the divine intricacies that define the zenith of creation.

Never forget, that I, you, Creative consciousness resides at the core and source of reality, an ethereal force that breathes life into the very fabric of existence. It is the unseen hand that weaves the tapestry of the cosmos, imbuing each thread with intention, meaning, and purpose. This consciousness is not a passive observer but an active, dynamic energy that manifests in the dance of particles, the birth of galaxies, and the ebb and flow of life itself. It is the cosmic architect, orchestrating the symphony of creation with boundless creativity. At this sacred nexus, the universe unfolds as a canvas upon which the strokes of imagination paint the ever-evolving story of reality. To tap into this creative consciousness is to access the wellspring of inspiration, innovation, and the infinite possibilities that shape the very essence of our existence.

Also see: Reclaiming Optimal Amount of Supremacy, Sovereignty & Responsibility

The Sun Inside


Within the sacred chambers of the soul, there is a radiant sun, an inner luminescence that connects the threads of existence. It is the celestial weaver of self-esteem, casting its golden rays upon the tapestry of identity. In its warm embrace, laughter becomes a melody, echoing through the corridors of the self and intertwining with the laughter of others. This sun, a silent master within, casts a luminous glow that not only uplifts the spirit but also illuminates the noble essence mirrored in oneself and reflected in the gaze of the other. It is the light that acknowledges the mastery inherent in every being, a cosmic dance where interconnected beams of brilliance coalesce, exalting the collective symphony of existence.

In this inner mystical sanctum of being, a radiant sun ignites, weaving a tapestry of the most elating intimate interconnectedness. Its luminous tendrils intertwine with the essence of self and other, forging bonds that transcend the ordinary and the extraordinary. This celestial orb is the source of a consciousness that rises like a phoenix, emboldened by the understanding that within its core lies a mastery both profound and shared. It casts its golden light on the laughter that echoes through the soul, a harmonious resonance that transcends the individual, becoming a shared melody in the grand symphony of existence. As this internal sun ascends, it exalts the spirit, uplifting not only the self but also illuminating the inherent brilliance mirrored in the gaze of the other. In this dance of light, laughter, and self-realization, the sun inside becomes a beacon of interconnected radiance, the will celebrating the most profound and uplifting aspects of the human experience.

Within the sacred chambers of the soul, the sun and moon unite in an ethereal breath, connecting the celestial forces that exalt and uplift fragments of the most wholesome, smooth, and efficient bliss. This inner cosmic union becomes a symphony of light and shadow, casting a radiant glow on the tapestry of existence. The sun, with its warm embrace, infuses moments with a golden brilliance, while the moon, with its tranquil luminescence, bathes the soul in a silvery serenity. Together, they orchestrate a harmonious balance that transcends duality, creating a seamless flow of sensuous elation that is efficient, attractive and profound. In this celestial verse, the manifestations of joy become a sublime expression of the interconnected forces within, a dance where wholesomeness reigns, and the journey of the soul unfolds with the grace of a cosmic sphere.

Bathed in the celestial glow of the moon within, a tranquil luminescence connects the fragments of the self, weaving a tapestry of the most uniting inspiration, creation, and oneness in the present moment. This inner moon, a cosmic muse, reflects in its silvery radiance the interconnected threads of inspiration that glance from, through and into the soul. It is a omni-present gentle guide, exalting the spirit and uplifting the very essence of being with a subtle luminosity that transcends time and space. In the quietude of its glow, creation unfolds as a meditative trance, each stroke an echo of the perfection of universal rhythm. The moon inside becomes a catalyst for oneness, a silent conductor orchestrating the symphony of existence in the harmonious notes of the now. As its ethereal light and concrete force weaves through the particles of the present, the moon inside whispers the poetry of the love and wholesome power, inspiring a boundless sense of connection, belonging and creation that perfects the boundaries of self.

Also see: the Sun Outside

Internal Sexuality: The Information Action Ratio

Understanding and embracing individual and internal sexuality involves a harmonious integration of both the feminine and masculine aspects within ourselves. The feminine, often associated with the moon, represents receptivity, intuition, and inspiration. This facet of our sexuality encourages us to connect with our emotions, tap into our creative energies, and navigate the subtle realms of our inner world. Embracing the lunar aspects of our sexuality allows for a deeper understanding of ourselves, fostering self-awareness and a connection with the cycles of life.

On the other hand, the masculine, symbolized by the sun, embodies action, strength, and assertiveness. It propels us forward, encouraging us to manifest our inspirations into tangible reality. Balancing the solar qualities within ourselves enables us to take decisive action, pursue our goals, and contribute actively to the world. The dance between the sun and the moon within our internal landscape creates a dynamic interplay that leads to a more complete and authentic expression of our sexuality.

In cultivating a holistic and inspiring whole, we find the synergy between these two forces. It's not about favoring one over the other but recognizing the beauty in their union. The exaltation comes from embracing the entirety of our sexuality, integrating the receptive and active energies within us. This integration fosters a profound sense of truth and authenticity, allowing individuals to navigate the complexities of their inner selves with grace, compassion, and a deep sense of purpose. In this balanced dance of the feminine and masculine, we discover a source of strength, creativity, and inspiration that propels us towards a more fulfilling and authentic expression of our sexuality.

See: Tantric, Balancing Inner Divine Masculine/Feminine vs External Divine Masculine/Feminine

A Core of Codependency

The Wasted Pain of Codependency

At its core, codependency is a dysfunctional and unhealthy pattern of behavior in relationships where individuals excessively rely on one another for approval, validation, and a sense of identity. The term originally emerged in the context of addiction, describing the enabling behavior of family members or partners of individuals struggling with substance abuse. However, it has since been recognized as a broader issue that can manifest in various types of relationships.

The core of codependency often involves an intense focus on others to the detriment of one's own well-being. People with codependent tendencies may have a heightened need for external validation, deriving their sense of self-worth from the approval of others. This often leads to a lack of boundaries, as individuals may become enmeshed in the lives and problems of those around them, neglecting their own needs and desires. Codependency is rooted in a fear of abandonment or rejection, driving individuals to prioritize others' needs over their own in an attempt to maintain a connection and avoid potential conflict.

Breaking free from codependency involves developing a healthier sense of self, establishing and maintaining clear boundaries, and fostering self-reliance and self-esteem. Therapy and support groups can be valuable resources for individuals looking to address and overcome codependent patterns in their relationships.


Main Problems of Codependency:

  1. Lack of Boundaries: Codependent individuals often struggle to establish and maintain healthy boundaries, leading to emotional exhaustion and blurred identities.

  2. The Dissolvment of One’s Potential, Gifts & Dreams: Becoming enmeshed and involved in codependency holds the strong danger of losing one’s gifts, potential and chance for a wholesome fulfilled life as an individual for good.

  3. Dependency on External Validation: Seeking constant approval from others can undermine self-worth, causing individuals to lose touch with their intrinsic value.

  4. The Inability to Reach True Fulfillment: Codependencies often come with the sad future of not ever reaching a point of true fulfillment, self-actualization, satisfaction and/or well-being.

  5. Neglect of Personal Needs: Codependents may prioritize others' needs at the expense of their own, leading to unmet desires and personal dissatisfaction.

  6. Fear of Abandonment: A deep-seated fear of rejection can drive codependents to overly invest in relationships, sacrificing their well-being to avoid separation.

Core Solutions to Codependency:

  1. Establish Clear Boundaries: Define and communicate personal boundaries, fostering a healthy separation between your needs and the needs of others.

  2. Cultivate Self-Love: Focus on building a strong sense of self-worth independent of external validation, recognizing your intrinsic value and uniqueness.

  3. Prioritize Self-Care: Acknowledge and meet your own needs, practicing self-care to ensure physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

  4. Confront Fear of Abandonment: Address the underlying fear of rejection through self-reflection, therapy, and self-compassion, understanding that your worth is not defined by others.

  5. Dare to Dream: Making time, space and a sacred intention for dreams, needs and long-forgotton gifts to flourish, bloom and manifest has the potential to be fruitful, inspiring and beneficial for all and both parties involved in the codependency.

Breaking free from codependency is a transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment. By embracing clear boundaries, nurturing self-love, prioritizing self-care, and confronting fears, individuals can shift towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships and a more authentic, empowered sense of self.

The Master of No Mistake

The Master of the (One) No Mistake


In the realm where moonlight dances, A symphony of fates takes chances. No mistakes in this cosmic rock, Just souls entwined, finding their way.

Silken whispers in the night, Passion's flame, a flickering light. Bodies moving, a rhythmic trance, No errors in this sultry romance.

Fingers tracing constellations, Exploring galaxies, love's foundations. No missteps, only ecstasy, As we surrender to sweet unity.

Your gaze, a river of desire, Setting the soul and senses on fire. No wrong turns in this sacred quest, Just a perfect love, divinely blessed.

Skin on skin, a canvas divine, No mistakes in this love's design. In every touch, a sacred grace, A dance of passion, face to face.

Breathless whispers, tender sighs, No errors as our spirits rise. Lost in the rhythm of heartbeats, No mistakes, just love that repeats.

Entangled limbs, a masterpiece, No misjudgments, only release. In the tapestry of our embrace, No flaws, just perfection's trace.

No mistakes in this love we've spun, A tale of two, forever one. In the poetry of our shared bliss, No errors, just eternal kiss.

The Bliss Inside

In the tapestry of life, the external world often becomes a cacophony of expectations, judgments, and societal pressures, weaving a narrative that seeks to diminish our spirits. From the moment we step into the world, we are bombarded with messages that attempt to shame, guilt-trip, and confound us, leaving us feeling small in the vast landscape of societal norms.

Yet, within the confines of our own sacred spaces, the narrative transforms. Indoors, where the echo of external judgments fades, a powerful alchemy occurs — a process that nourishes, exalts, empowers, enlightens, fulfills, and excites the very essence of our being.

Diminishing Forces Beyond Our Doors:

The external world, driven by its own pace and expectations, often seeks to diminish our uniqueness. Society imposes standards that dictate how we should look, what success should resemble, and how we should conduct ourselves. This external narrative, fueled by comparison and the relentless pursuit of validation, can leave us feeling like mere spectators in our own lives.

Shame, the insidious companion of societal expectations, whispers in our ears, urging conformity and self-doubt. Guilt becomes a heavy burden, a tool used to enforce compliance with societal norms. The external world's constant barrage can create confusion, obscuring the path to self-discovery and leaving us adrift in a sea of external expectations.

The Empowering Haven Indoors:

Yet, as we close the door to the outside world, a profound shift occurs. Indoors, we reclaim sovereignty over our narrative, creating a haven for our authentic selves. In this sacred space, the power to exalt, empower, enlighten, fulfill, and excite lies within our grasp.

Within the walls of our own sanctuary, we have the freedom to define success on our terms. The external metrics that once dictated our worth dissipate, making room for a newfound sense of self-worth. Here, authenticity is not only embraced but celebrated as the cornerstone of personal power.

Enlightenment in the Quietude:

Indoors, away from the noise of external judgment, a symphony of silence awaits. In this quietude, self-reflection becomes a transformative journey toward enlightenment. Away from the distractions of the outside world, we can hear the whispers of our inner wisdom, guiding us toward a deeper understanding of ourselves.

The pursuit of self-awareness becomes a conscious choice, unfettered by the expectations of others. Within the cocoon of our sacred space, we unravel the layers of conditioning and rediscover the radiant light of our true essence.

Fulfillment through Authentic Expression:

Our indoor sanctuaries become fertile grounds for the unfurling of our passions and authentic expressions. Freed from the constraints of external expectations, we find fulfillment in the genuine pursuit of what brings us joy.

The canvas of our indoor space becomes a masterpiece of self-discovery, painted with the vibrant hues of our unique talents and interests. Fulfillment is no longer measured by societal standards but by the alignment of our actions with our true selves.

Excitement in the Dance of Personal Freedom:

As we revel in the freedom of our indoor sanctuaries, excitement becomes a constant companion in the dance of personal freedom. The thrill of being true to oneself, unhindered by external judgment, propels us forward on a journey of self-discovery.

Indoors, we embrace change not as a threat but as an opportunity for growth. The excitement of personal evolution becomes a driving force, transforming our sacred space into a dynamic arena for the exploration of our unlimited potential.

Embrace Your Sacred Space:

In a world that often seeks to diminish, shame, guilt-trip, and confuse, the sanctuary of our own space becomes a refuge for the soul. Let us embrace the transformative power of our indoor sanctuaries, where we are free to nourish, exalt, empower, enlighten, fulfill, and excite our true selves.

Within the walls of our sacred space, we find the strength to stand tall, unburdened by the external forces that once sought to diminish us. It is here, in the sanctuary of our own creation, that we cultivate the seeds of empowerment, enlightenment, fulfillment, and excitement, allowing the unique essence of our being to blossom and flourish. Step into the transformative embrace of your sacred space, and let the journey to self-discovery unfold within the sanctuary of your heart and home.