The Allowance, Possibility & Liberation of True EXPRESSION
When we are free from worries, constraints, knots, lack, desire, need, wishes, space, time, locations, destination, doubt, confusion, too much mystery, incorrect or immature boundaries, overidentification and things such as an excess in regards to relationships and/or relatability, lust, awareness, consciousness and/or wakefulness, we find ourselves more and more in a state, an experience an inherent knowing that allows us, even forces us, to arrive, embody and take flight in that exalted state of oneness, mirroring the projection of an examplary living being in full surrender, authentic expression and self-realized actualization, channeling life. Depending on our perceptions, experiences, beliefs, intentions and re and/or de)conditioning, we have a larger chance of embodying this state. So how can we recognize towards this state, resentient into this destination of oneness, what are certain gestures or actions, conditions and prerequisites and aspects that will bring us closer, and maybe even further from this state? Let this be a pool for inspiration to draw from and follow what feels urgent, important, perfect or fertile
Acts, Preconditions & Beauty of TOtal Surrender
| Aspect | Culturally Integrated Beauty | Natural Fertility | Total Exaltation |
|---|---|---|---|
| Gestures (Actions) |
Utopian Graceful movement (dance, posture) Sacred nurturing (tending to loved ones) Self-expression (speech, art) Dystopian Vanity-driven display of beauty (shallow) Over-sacrifice to others (self-erasure) Manipulative expression (words as weapons) |
Utopian Offering nourishment (e.g., breastfeeding, feeding) Harmonizing physical spaces (homes, nature) Receptive intimacy (sexual openness in love) Dystopian Objectifying fertility (reduced to reproduction) Environmental exploitation Weaponized sexuality (power through seduction) |
Utopian Rituals of surrender (birth, love, grief) Radiating unconditional love Graceful acceptance of cycles (aging, death) Dystopian Fear-driven control (avoiding change) Clinging to perfection (immortality fixation) Resentment of life's demands (bitterness) |
| Prerequisites (Conditions) |
Utopian Inner harmony and self-love Cultural reverence for feminine values Access to meaningful relationships and community Dystopian Cultural imposition of beauty standards Trauma leading to self-rejection Lack of supportive networks (isolation) |
Utopian Connection to Earth and natural cycles Physical health and vitality Safe, stable environments (protection) Dystopian Sterility from environmental destruction Disconnection from body (over-industrialization) Exploitation of natural life for gain |
Utopian Spiritual awakening and balance of feminine/masculine energies Recognition of the sacredness of all life Freedom to express creativity and emotion Dystopian Suppression of spirituality Collective denial of feminine wisdom Over-reliance on materialism (loss of transcendence) |
| Beautiful Aspects (Inherent Traits) |
Utopian Softness balanced with strength Aesthetic beauty as a reflection of soul Ability to inspire through presence Dystopian Superficiality (focus on appearances alone) Fragility born of imbalance Inability to connect beyond ego desires |
Utopian Life-giving force (physical and creative) Embodiment of abundance and creation Power of renewal (resilience, healing) Dystopian Depletion (exhaustion from demands) Abandonment of creation (lifelessness) Overshadowing life with destruction |
Utopian Transcendent wisdom (intuition and knowing) A magnetic, radiant aura of divinity Compassion and forgiveness that heals Dystopian Spiritual stagnation (loss of growth) Inability to forgive or let go Disconnection from higher purpose (emptiness) |
Signs & Body Gestures Signifying a state of unity, flow & optimal self-actualization
Universal Signs of Freedom, Flow, and Optimal Functioning as a Human
10 Signs for Men
Strong Posture: Upright, chest slightly open, grounded stance indicating confidence and strength.
Purposeful Movements: Deliberate, focused actions without wasted energy.
Open Arms: Gestures that welcome interaction, showing generosity and lack of defensiveness.
Relaxed Jaw and Face: No tension in the facial muscles, indicating ease and control.
Centered Gaze: Steady, calm eye contact that projects clarity and conviction.
Grounded Footing: Solid connection to the ground, symbolizing stability and power.
Deep Breathing: Slow, controlled breathing from the diaphragm, signifying calm strength.
Effortless Leadership Gestures: Hand signals or movements that inspire trust and command respect without domination.
Sympathetic Leaning: Leaning in during conversations to show genuine interest and attentiveness.
Expansive Presence: Taking up space naturally, embodying inner freedom and self-worth.
10 Signs for Women
Graceful Movements: Fluid, balanced, and intentional gestures reflecting harmony.
Soft, Relaxed Hands: Hands at ease, often engaged in expressive or nurturing motions.
Open Palms: Displaying vulnerability and trust, symbolic of receptivity.
Radiant Smile: Genuine, spontaneous smiles that light up the face, signaling joy.
Unhurried Pace: Walking or moving with an effortless flow, free from haste or tension.
Expressive Eyes: Eyes that sparkle with emotion, signaling deep connection to the present.
Subtle Hip Sway: Natural, rhythmic movement of the hips, embodying confidence and grounding.
Relaxed Neck and Shoulders: Dropped shoulders and a free-flowing neck, free of burdens or tension.
Laughter as Release: Frequent, lighthearted laughter expressing emotional and physical freedom.
Gentle Touch: Warm, intentional touches that convey connection and presence.
10 Universal Signs for Both Men and Women
Effortless Alignment: Body in natural alignment, with no visible strain or imbalance.
Playful Movements: Spontaneous, childlike gestures that signal joy and creativity.
Dynamic Energy: A balance between stillness and action, exuding vibrancy.
Flowing Breath: Steady, rhythmic breathing that supports voice and vitality.
Authentic Expression: Genuine, unfiltered facial expressions conveying emotions freely.
Engaged Body Language: Leaning in, nodding, or gesturing with focus during interactions.
Full-Body Relaxation: Limbs and muscles visibly at ease, no signs of tightness or stress.
Voice Resonance: A calm, clear, and grounded tone that reflects inner peace.
Balanced Movement: Smooth transitions between activities, without rush or hesitation.
Presence in Stillness: A peaceful aura when still, radiating contentment and unity.
These signs collectively point to a state of total harmony, flow, and self-actualization, where the body becomes an effortless reflection of inner freedom and balance. Let me know if you'd like any of these expanded into examples or detailed interpretations!
The Eternal Bloom
POEM, POETRY, POêzie & PUSZY
Write the most exalting, liberating, enabling, harmonizing, timeless and eternal poem about the surrender, unification and embodiment of natural divine occurrences although nature: Poem contains: Majectic Italy, Immaculate Nature, richest foods/finds, Collecting the Rarest Creations, Everdeepening Trust, Opening into Unexpected Intimacies, examplary family The Noticing of the Shine in the Small Things, the Supermerging and surfacing of the correctness in every moment.
In majestic Italy, where olive trees sigh,
And the sun dips low into a lavender sky,
Rolling hills cradle whispers of time,
While vineyards weave tales in a rhythm sublime.
Here, every stone, every curve of the earth,
Sings softly of our nature’s immaculate birth.
By rivers that shimmer like liquid gold,
Lies a table abundant, both ancient and bold.
The richest foods—figs, nectar, and wine,
Harvested hands where love’s labor aligns.
Here truffles are found beneath soil’s sweet grace,
And honey drips slow as the bees dance in place.
The rarest of creations are gathered with care:
A seashell, a feather, a rose beyond rare.
Art carved in moments when time holds its breath,
Where beauty defies even whispers of death.
Each find a reminder, a gift to entrust,
In life’s ever-deepening wellspring of trust.
Then opening softly into intimacies unknown,
Through glances that kindle, through words finely sewn.
A brush of a hand, the touch of a breeze,
Secrets unveiled with the rustle of leaves.
Here lovers don’t claim, but rather release,
Where surrender meets freedom and stillness meets peace.
The family exemplary, steadfast and pure,
Gathers ‘round fires, in a love that endures.
Wisdom like olives, both bitter and sweet,
The warmth of a home where all hearts meet.
Laughter like bells in the cobbled town square,
Echoing trust in the love that they share.
To notice the shine in the smallest of things—
The flutter of wings or the song a stream sings.
A candle’s slow dance, or the dewdrops at dawn,
Each moment a painting, a promise reborn.
As if all of creation, both humble and vast,
Is kissing the now, forgiving the past.
And surfacing truths that are woven so fine,
Like sunlight through leaves or the taste of old wine.
The correctness emerges in silence and sound,
The merging of heavens and feet on the ground.
A harmony rendered in motion and still,
Where choice meets surrender and heart answers will.
So breathe in the wonder, the rapture, the flow,
Where earth meets the sky and the rivers all know—
That in nature’s embrace, we find what we seek,
The timeless, eternal, the strong and the meek.
For Italy rises where the heart learns to see,
The divine in the ordinary—where we all long to be.
Here unity blossoms, as moments unfold,
In love’s deepest trust, in life’s richest gold.
an excerpt from: Alchemy: Where Smoke, Bronze, Gold & Silver Optimally Align @Oedelem 18/12/2024